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Several years ago at a dinner party, each of us described how our families were persecuted in their original homeland.  A Chinese friend described the treatment by the Japanese during WWII.  A Korean had her own stories of suffering during the same era.  Our Jewish friends ticked off one pogrom after another.  Then it was my turn, “I’m Irish Protestant, I’m the oppressor!”

My great uncle was the pastor of a large Presbyterian Church in Belfast, so it’s no surprise where my family stood on the Irish conflict.  But, I’m three generations away and tend towards questioning rather than accepting.  When I studied Irish history here’s what I found:  bombings, terrorism, oppression, discrimination, hate, hate, and more hate.   To a Southern California girl it all felt very distant.  And then Frank McCourt wrote Angela’s Ashes.  Frank put a face on the suffering of a country stuck in a cycle of vindictiveness.  We can study the facts of the conflict for the rest of our lives, but Frank showed how it feels for an ordinary family to live it.  If I were teaching a history class, his book would be required reading.

Most of us experienced Frank McCourt as a writer, but a few thousand lucky Stuyvesant High School students learned creative writing from him (can you imagine?).  We have a silent partner on Bookstore People, Colin Summers is our computer genius who keeps the blog going while Claire and I write away.  Truth be told, we can hardly find our blog e-mail without Colin’s help.  Colin was one of Frank’s students and wrote a moving memorial of him on Vanity Fair Online.  Colin shares Frank’s humor and his incredible memory, plus you’ll learn how Colin’s first girlfriend dumped him.

After reading the comments on the NYT’s McCourt article, Claire and I have a new favorite McCourt quote sent in from a former student, Peter A. Geiger:

Frank McCourt was my English teacher in my senior year at Stuyvesant (class of ‘74). He introduced us to African literature such as Chinua Achebe’s Things Fall Apart, which sounded even more dramatic in his thick brogue.

When one student asked why we should read this book, what possible use would it be to us in our lives, he answered, “You will read it for the same reason your parents waste their money on your piano lessons. So you won’t be a boring little shite the rest of your life.”

It was the most honest answer to such a question I ever heard from any teacher. Whenever the question came to my head about any subject thereafter I fondly remembered Mr. McCourt and resolved not to be a boring little shite.

The perfect way to memorialize Frank McCourt–try not to be a boring little shite.

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Last year Keith and I were driving Kyle and his friend to an event and I asked the friend what he was doing the next day for Mother’s Day.  He answered that he was reading his mother a poem.  Keith and Kyle almost fell over in astonishment and the friend was confused.  I explained that they were expecting (hoping) that he would say “what, tomorrow is Mother’s Day?” and his answer just showed up whatever plans they made.  Kyle’s friend explained that the kids have a little show for their mother every year. 

Keith and I went on to dinner with two couples and I told them about our car conversation.  One husband spent the rest of the evening conjuring up poems, or maybe sailor limericks would be a better description.  The second husband worked with his daughters the next morning to plan a list of reading material including poems and excerpts from Little Women and Pride and Prejudice and read them to her throughout the day.  So, surprise the Mom in your life and spend a few minutes reading to her. 

Suggestions for what to read to your mother:

- Kyle’s friend read  “The Lanyard” by Billy Collins and it is a perfect Mother’s Day poem, especially for a child still in school.

- The few pages in Little Women in the first chapter starting with the paragraph “The Clock struck six” when Beth lays out Marmee’s slippers, to when Marmee comes home and announces “I’ve got a treat for you after supper.”  Or don’t stop, it’s such a lovely book.

- The poem “To My Mother” by Wendell Berry, perfect for an adult child.

- You may have a wife or friend who needs this story:

“Kids are Dogs, Teens are Cats” by an unknown author

I just realized that while children are dogs … loyal and affectionate …
teenagers are cats. Read the rest of this entry »

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President’s Day is a celebration of two great Presidents, George Washington and Abraham Lincoln.  Moreover, President Lincoln, the man our current President calls his role model, was born two hundred years ago today.  I’m joyfully awash with all of the Lincoln information I’ve read and heard about in the last week.  At the end of this post, there are links to music, book reviews, the Abraham Lincoln bookshop and a beautiful tribute.  So many adult books on Lincoln were published recently, it’s hard to keep up with them.  I’m going a different route for this Recommended Reading post.  I’m focusing on a recently published children’s picture book, Mr. Lincoln’s Boys written by Staton Rabin and illustrated by Bagram Ibatoulline, and Tad Lincoln’s Father, a memoir published 70 years ago by Julia Taft Bayne. Read the rest of this entry »

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A week before John Updike died, I had a long conversation with my book group buddy, Jennifer McCabe, about John Updike.  Jenn runs TeamJenn, a virtual accounting department that offers all the accounting services you need without taking your third floor office space.  But, when she’s not enhancing your business, she’s an incredible reader and an Updike groupie.  So when John Updike died, the first person I thought of was her, and I asked her to write about her Updike journey.  If you want tributes with publication dates, speaking history and education, they are all over the Internet, but Jenn tells us what it’s like to love an author for your entire adult life:

I am mad about John Updike. I never had the discipline to wait for a paperback when a new book came out. Several years ago, one of my like-minded fellow fanatics told me Updike was doing a reading/signing gig at the library downtown.  There was never any doubt that we’d go and see him (in the middle of a work day like thieves sneaking into a museum).  I was so twitterpated while we listened to him read to us that I almost cried.  I felt so lucky to be in the same room with him, actually looking at his silver head, LISTENING to him while he read something he had written. My guy J.U…..right in front of me!!!   It was overwhelming.  He was wry, handsome, smart…and then he signed my book.  I got back in my car, squeezed my fists tightly, and squealed.  Only Mick Jagger has gotten a bigger reaction from me. Read the rest of this entry »

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